Friday, July 25, 2014
Look at sweet Mimi, all innocent and elegant.
Ah, the terror has returned to her eyes. Time for round two!
Sorry I've been off the blog for a week. Life just gets busy. I'm at the airport in Shanghai waiting to fly to Thailand. We've had a three-hour delay so far. Take care!
Friday, July 18, 2014
Lencrafters called and said my new glasses were ready. After living most of my life with perfect vision, age has caught up with me. My arms are no longer long enough to read ANYTHING. So at 4 p.m., when the sun was not too hot, I took off on my e-bike to get my new glasses.
The thick humidity and the buzzing cicadas were proof that summer is here. The heat index is only around 100°F; last year the heat index was 20 degrees hotter than that, every day, for two months. This year's temperatures are so much more bearable!
Lenscrafters did an excellent job. I can see everything perfectly now. What a great thing that Lenscrafters is in my city!
Since I was in that part of town anyways, I decided to get a pedicure. I went all last summer without a pedicure -- I just wore socks and tennis shoes to keep my feet soft and clean -- but I have to go back to Thailand next week and my toes may be exposed to the outside world by sandals. So I felt inclined to spruce them up a bit.
Before I got the pedicure, I exchanged some DVD's at the DVD store, and bought a big cup of steaming black coffee at Starbucks to take with me to the pedicure place. I went to Dragonfly, the most relaxing spot on earth, for my pedicure. The zen-like ambience, beautiful decor and the smell of sandalwood wafting in the air at Dragonfly make the outing a special one.
After the pedicure, I went around the corner to the local Tex-Mex restaurant. I love that place. It reminds me more of America than any place in this whole country. It is spacious, well-decorated, and has mariachi music. The food is awesome, and the waitresses are friendly and efficient, even without the incentive of a tip. That's another thing I like about eating out here -- no tax and no tipping added on to your bill.
Then it was dark, and I had half an hour ride to get back to my place. The city was lit up beautifully against the night sky. The ancient-looking city wall along the moat looked regal and enchanting. Hundreds of people crowded the parks for line dancing/exercise, kite-flying (the kites were lit up, don't ask me how), shopping and strolling.
It was just lovely. I love the summer evenings here, and hope to enjoy them more in the days to come.
Thursday, July 17, 2014
Wednesday, July 16, 2014
He practically snarled at me when I got off the bus in his part of town. Not the dog, but the man. What was I, a foreign woman, doing in his part of town? I did not "belong" in his village area on the outskirts of the city.
I had arrived there early (or, rather, those I was to meet arrived quite late). I stood around awkwardly in the hot sun with nothing to do while waiting for my friends to arrive, drawing unwanted attention. I finally found a seat inside a pharmacy and waited there for half an hour. In exchange for the seat I bought some aspirin … for the headache that had come upon me. My friends finally arrived; together we left the bus stop area and went elsewhere.
The following day I returned. I stepped off the bus and there, once again, was the man and his dog. I had a surprised look on my face, to see them again two days in a row like that. When the man realized that the foreign woman actually RECOGNIZED him from the day before, he couldn't contain the smile on his face or the enthusiasm in his demeanor. We were suddenly like best friends, and he wanted me to take photos of him and his dog together. (I'm not sure if he thinks I am going to return with a photo to give him or if he just wanted to create a lasting token of his presence on this earth for me to enjoy. I get this "take my picture" request from strangers all the time.)
I can't help but think that people just want to be regarded as significant, in any small way as they can achieve it. They want to be memorable, to have an impact in the hearts and minds of others.
And now that these two are on my blog, I suppose I will, indeed, remember them forever.
(So glad I don't have to pay for whatever feeds that monster dog, aren't you?! My little Mimi costs an arm and a leg to feed, and this one is WAY bigger.)
Tuesday, July 15, 2014
Enemy, I get it. You busted my electricity, flooded my house, destroyed my hot water heaters, crashed my computer and gave me sneezing fits. All in the same week! These, I do not like, but will survive. But in the name of God who provides my protection, do not be messing with my dog!
I came home from day one of an important event last week to find that my dog had lost control of her back legs. She was dragging them behind her and couldn't support her weight. The legs were having some kind of seizure and/or cramps. It was very scary and continued for four days. I have taken her to the vet by taxi before, but it is not always easy (drivers think they are going to die of rabies by breathing the same air as a dog), so I took her this time by e-bike. It was about 15 miles roundtrip to the vet and back. Mimi laid on a pillow on the floor board, stuck her head out to see what was ahead of us, and thoroughly enjoyed the trip. Thankfully, it was a cloudy day, so the heat was not unbearable. I drove more slowly than ever before, making sure I didn't get close enough to the curb to take her head off, while staying close enough to the curb that no one would try to drive between us and the curb. It was a weekday morning, so traffic was light (most everyone was at work). The vet gave her medicine, not that I can get her to take the stuff very easily. And now she has gone several days without any repeat problems. Thank you God! I was so worried that this was something she would not recover from. She's only 9.
Here she is sitting up to look out the front. On the way home, she laid down and rested the whole way back.
I got a new hot water heater in my bathroom. I still don't have hot water in the kitchen, so I'm washing dishes with cold water. It will take time to get heaters, computers, etc. all fixed.
But I think this battle round is mostly over. Heaven wins. But you already knew that.
Monday, July 14, 2014
It seems that God had his hand on her life from early on. She was taken to a government orphanage, in her central China city, in which all the workers wore cross necklaces around their necks and played Christian praise music in the background. The little girl didn't get held -- or fed -- as much as most young children who are raised in families. She was, however, protected from the elements, given the basic necessities of life and was prayed for. The government paid for her to have surgery to fix her lip, and later another one to fix her palate. But what she really needed was a mom, and a dad, and a home.
Meet my little friend A. She was adopted by my American friends who live here in the same city as me. In the above photo, A had been with her new family less than one week. But she already knew who here daddy was, and fell asleep in his arms while we all visited together. She now has two parents and two slightly older siblings who are crazy about her.
The family has now returned to the U.S. for a few months to get her citizenship paperwork done and to let surgeons check out her lip/palate condition.
On the day we met, she smiled at me a lot, so of course I love her! I'm looking forward to them coming back this fall so I can spend more time with her, erasing any lingering trace in her mind of a life without love.
Monday, July 07, 2014
Saturday, July 05, 2014
Not five minutes earlier, I had received a message from a young Christian man who said "D*** it, I can't make it to the study tonight due to work responsibilities!" I don't think he knows that it is not really all that appropriate to use that phrase, especially in the context of the event he was discussing. He probably heard it on some American movie and thinks it is as pure and innocent as saying "doggone it."
Speaking a foreign language can be a tricky thing! I approach it with much fear and trembling myself.